Loving life again
I lived in Japan for 20 years, and by the end of that chapter, I couldn’t wait to leave. I felt disconnected and trapped. Everything felt oppressive.
Eighteen months ago, I moved back to my hometown. Now I have the privilege of traveling back to my second home—Tokyo—multiple times a year. And every time I visit, I fall in love with it more deeply.
Tokyo hasn’t changed.
I have.
I needed to feel secure and free, and I found those feelings by reconnecting with my home country and hometown.
Here’s the thing: I was both secure and free in Tokyo but I didn’t feel that way.
I took a big, life-changing step to shift my perspective.
BUT sometimes life-changing results can come from simple mental shifts and even the smallest actions.
Maybe the problem isn’t your environment, but the way you relate to it.
Maybe there’s a third (or fourth, or fifth) option beyond the binary solutions to the problem ping-ponging in your mind.
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